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One of the most enjoyable things I get to do is consult on scripts for children’s television shows with a mental health angle. While reviewing these scripts, I have become intrigued by how television content for young people has evolved and changed in recent years. Although not always a conscious process, the television content we watch or the music we listen to impacts our worldview and perhaps even our view of ourselves. Television shows I watched in my childhood and early adulthood played a significant role in shaping the views, opinions and beliefs I still hold today. Whether it was learning about good and bad ( Fortycoats & Co), the value of being of service to others ( Littlest Hobo), absences and loss are part of life ( Highway to Heaven), or mimicking a turn of phrase or fashion styles ( Friends), the characters and storyline of these television shows influenced who I was or wanted to be. Modern-day television content doesn’t seem to impact children's development as much. In the same way, it appears that bands have far less influence on their growing-up experience. We have gone from an album to a song culture, which has limited our range of experiences. British TV personality Richard Osman points out that from 1990 to 1995, bands held the number-one spot in the UK charts for 141 weeks. However, between 2014 and 2019, a band held the number one position for three weeks. Similar changes can be seen in our communal enjoyment of television. It has become far more common for us to watch a TV show on a handheld device alone with headphones than come together and watch it collectively. Plenty has been written about the impact of TV shows on younger audiences, like Peppa Pig or Bluey. However, far less is discussed regarding content for slightly older children and younger teens — those who are too old for Peppa but too young for Game of Thrones. This in-between age group is more likely to turn to platforms like YouTube and TikTok for their entertainment sources, a pity because watching content on streaming platforms alone might result in a generation that will never get to experience the enjoyment of watching TV programmes together. There is the counterargument of ‘so what’, but I would propose that communal viewing is integral to the developmental and entertainment process. Much is to be gained from the shared experience of watching a programme and connecting about various aspects of what we liked or disliked. The ability to binge-watch most TV series removes an element of the communal experience of waiting for a week to see the next episode. Line of Duty is the last series I can remember that gradually released episodes and created a stir of anticipation and numerous watercooler conversations as we collectively pondered who the infamous ‘H’ was. There was something important in the shared excitement of finding out how something ends together. With the domination of modern streaming platforms, we may never experience the shared curiosity akin to when the world deliberated over ‘Who shot JR?’. When technology gives us what we want at the cost of what we need
Young children now share content instead of experiences. Discussing YouTube shorts or TikTok videos, which is perhaps an evolution of the ‘shared experience’, is different from sharing the experience of a gradually released TV series involving a plot that unfolds every week, missing yet another opportunity for important human connection. It's another example of technology giving us what we want at the cost of what we need. Children today seem to be pickier when viewing content for entertainment. Whether that is a natural consequence of the tyranny of choice, it's increasingly difficult to find an experience that children of different ages can enjoy or agree on. When I suggest to my children that we watch an old classic like The Goonies or Back to the Future, there is a collective eye roll. By the time the opening credits (much longer in the ’80s) are finished, there have been at least two suggestions to ‘Watch something else’. However, I had a recent experience where we watched something together as a family, and we managed to get to the end credits without anyone wanting to leave the room. The Unreal on RTÉ Player
A few months ago, I was asked to consult on a script for a new TV show being made for RTÉ called The Unreal. The story, a cross between Bosco and Stranger Things, follows the experience of the Kelly family on a reluctant family staycation in a dilapidated holiday park in Ireland. However, this holiday park isn’t as dull as it initially seems to 12-year-old Kevin, his screen-obsessed sister Katie and their distracted parents. Before long, Kevin unearths a path to a fairy world with complex characters, and things get interesting. The part of the storyline I was asked to contribute to was how 12-year-old Kevin was portrayed in the story and how the theme of parental mental illness was written into the story. The dynamic between Kevin and his father was immediately of interest to me. It becomes clear that Kevin’s father is suffering from depression, frequently ‘taking to the bed’ and lacking any enthusiasm. The storyline provides the viewer with an insight into how parental mental distress impacts all family members and how they, in turn, react to or understand this behaviour. Kevin’s mother seems frustrated with her husband’s apathy and while she tries to cover for him occasionally, you can see that it is taking its toll on her. Kevin’s sister is so disconnected from the family and connected to her online persona that, on the surface, she seems unaffected by her dad’s behaviour. Kevin seems to worry that his dad’s struggles might linked to him getting in trouble at school, and he fears his dad might not love him anymore. This experience of disconnection is not uncommon in families, yet it’s rarely discussed. When a parent is experiencing overt mental distress, children can inaccurately assume that it is somehow their fault; if they were more lovable, then their parents wouldn’t feel as sad or anxious. TV shows like The Unreal can provide essential conversation points for discussing and understanding difficult topics like parental mental illness, and identification with the characters can open up that discussion in a once-removed way. Relatable topics
I sent my observations and impressions to the writers, and some months later, the production team kindly sent me an advanced copy of the series to view at home; I set aside a Saturday evening to watch it. That Saturday, I did my usual process of bribing my three children to come into the sitting room to watch the show. When I suggested we watch The Unreal, the customary groans ensued, with an additional sarcastic, air quote accompanied by a claim, “This is just Dad is trying to give us another learning moment”. I put it on, and despite the initial grumblings, all three seemed to get into it. Ordinarily, it can be challenging to get something that holds the attention of a nine-year-old, a 12-year-old and a 14-year-old, but The Unreal did. The series consists of four episodes, and I was shocked that when the first one finished, all three asked that I put on the second one. Watching this short series together was interesting as it initiated conversations about various aspects of the storyline and characters. That it is a very Irish production made it relatable, and the contemporary topics around screen use, accompanied by the presence of an old VHS video recorder as a core aspect of the plot, offered a rare opportunity for both generations to discuss these aspects. The relatability of the characters was key to why my children enjoyed the series. Kevin struggles with academics and friendships in school, and he shares many of the insecurities that most early teenagers experience. Also, older sister Katie’s obsession with her smartphone and preoccupation with ‘entertaining her followers’ led to an interesting discussion about the lure of ‘influencer culture’. Interestingly, my children did not see Katie as a caricature of self-obsession but thought her behaviour was quite normal. My daughter did not view the character’s obsession with her online persona as problematic and worryingly suggested she would like to be like her. All in all, the familiarity of The Unreal led to conversations that otherwise might not have happened. So, if, like me, you have children at different stages of development and are struggling to find something they and you might all watch together, perhaps try The Unreal on the RTÉ Player. Dr Colman Noctor is a child psychotherapist
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Kevin was in the hot seat after answering a Geography question in the quickest time, beating the other five hopefuls
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In Sunday night's edition of Who Wants to be a Millionaire, Jeremy Clarkson was visibly taken aback. The veteran host was working his charm on a particularly sharp contestant who stood a chance to walk away with the coveted £1 million prize. Contenders vying for the top prize must correctly answer 15 questions of various topics, following their Fastest Finger First victory. This evening saw Kevin secure his hot seat position by swiftly answering a Geography question faster than his five competitors. Kevin delivered a performance that left Clarkson nearly lost for words, he marvelled at the player after witnessing him climb to the £125,000 level, all without resorting to any of the available lifelines or setting a safety net. Lifelines present contestants with opportunities for assistance, through 50:50, phone a friend, ask the audience or consult the host himself. A safety net, on the other hand, guarantees participants a sum they've already reached in case of subsequent incorrect answers, reports the Express . Impressed by the player's showing, Clarkson exclaimed: "Absolutely tremendous. I don't think I've ever asked this before... Do you want to set your safety net at £125,000?" Jeremy was left gasping after show first (Image: (Image: ITV))
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The surprise was evident in Clarkson's reaction, almost incredulous at his own query. To which Kevin confidently asserted: "I will set it at that." Clarkson responded: "You will set it at that? And all lifelines left. This is... wow. My fingers are crossed here. This is something special." Supporters had lofty expectations for the contestant, believing he would "go all the way", but it wasn't meant to be as he soon exhausted his lifelines and was stumped. When faced with the £500,000 question, Kevin was asked: "According to their official measurements, which of these paintings is the smallest?" Kevin astounded with a show first
The possible answers were The Starry Night, Mona Lisa, Girl With a Pearl Earring, or American Gothic. After using the phone a friend lifeline, the contestant decided not to take a chance by guessing and opted to take the money instead, leaving the quiz show £250,000 richer. Viewers at home were thrilled for him, taking to X - formerly Twitter - to share their congratulations. One user wrote: "He won £250k. I thought he might go all the way for a moment. #WhoWantsToBeAMillionaire." Jeremy couldn't believe he'd set his safety net so late in the game (Image: (Image: ITV))
Another posted: "Good decision, Kevin. That was an awesome game there and he heads off with £250k! #WhoWantsToBeAMillionaire." Meanwhile, a third user added: " Absolutely correct decision by Kevin. Respect to him for the way he played. #whowantstobeamillionaire." The Top Gear star has been in the hosting chair for the much loved game show since 2018, this after the show was revived following a four-year hiatus after Chris Tarrant stepped down from his presenting role. At the time of exiting the programme, Chris said: "I am privileged to have been a part of it, but do now feel that it is time for me to call it a day. I've worked ridiculously hard these last few years and to quote myself, 'it's time to take a break'." Who Wants to be a Millionaire airs on ITV1 on Sundays at 8pm. Story Saved
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Kevin and Harold, both 71, met at a bar in St Louis in 1991. They fell in love and now live together in Palm Springs, California
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In 1991, Kevin was living in St Louis, Missouri, working as a management trainer for the local government, and enjoying going out at the weekends. “I’d split up with my former partner about eight months before,” he says. “I wasn’t especially looking for a relationship but I was enjoying meeting new people.”
That October, he went to a “leather and Levi’s” gay bar, where everyone wore their favourite leather or denim outfits. “I wore jeans and when I arrived everyone else was wearing leather except for one other guy.” Due to their matching attire, they struck up a conversation at the bar. “When I spotted Kevin, I liked him,” says Harold. “He was tall with a very square jaw, which gave him an edgy look.” Like Kevin, Harold was also living and working in St Louis. “I was an elementary school teacher and definitely keen to find a partner at the time,” he says. ‘We were always getting invited to parties’ … Harold and Kevin
The conversation between them flowed easily, and they kissed that night. After exchanging phone numbers, Harold left a message for Kevin the following week. “For our first date, we went to see Les Misérables,” says Kevin. “We had tickets for a different night and accidentally went on the wrong date. Luckily, they seated us anyway and we laughed about it.”
Straight away, Harold says he knew Kevin was a keeper. “He was good-looking and really level-headed,” he says. Kevin thought Harold was “very sweet” and they agreed to keep seeing each other. A few months later, Kevin’s mother died. “Even though we’d only been together a short time, Harold was very supportive. He listened to me every time I needed to talk,” says Kevin. “He was in Kansas City with family at the time and we had some long-distance calls.”
Things got serious between them quickly and they moved to a large apartment together in the summer of 1992. “We had a really active and fun social life,” says Kevin. “Neither of us were out at our jobs, but there were plenty of gay bars to go to on the weekend, and we were always getting invited to parties with friends.”
They also loved travelling. “We visited lots of places like New Orleans, Washington DC, Michigan and San Francisco, as well as London,” says Harold. After seven years together, they opened their relationship and began having threesomes, as well as additional partners. “We’ve been with different people at different periods, but we’ve always been each other’s primary partners,” says Kevin. “We’re each other’s number one.”
In 2001, Harold retired from teaching and Kevin felt ready for a change after becoming burnt out at work. They moved to California, where Kevin got a job as a director’s assistant in local government. A few years later, he switched careers and began working as an instructional designer of university courses, first in California, then Santa Fe in New Mexico and Las Vegas, Nevada, where they stayed for six years. “I enjoyed making friends with all our neighbours and became a dog-sitter,” says Harold. Share your experience

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'His life appeared to be wonderful... no family should have to go through this'
The family of Jonny Gascoigne, 35, have been left devastated
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The heartbroken father of a "much loved" man who tragically took his own life last month, has vowed to do everything in his power to prevent another family from enduring the "hell" they have experienced. The family of Jonny Gascoigne, 35, said his 'life appeared to be wonderful'. However, the dad-of-two started struggling with his mental health in the weeks before his death. Tragically, just days before he ended his own life, he told his parents he planned to go to hospital for mental health support, but sadly, he never made it. Kevin, his father, has since been vocal about his commitment to promoting awareness around men's mental health issues. He said: "We're doing everything we can to encourage people to talk about their struggles. We wouldn't want any other family to go through what we've been going through the past three weeks. It's been absolutely horrendous." Jonny, who was a huge Sheffield United fan and had thousands of followers on his channel dedicated to the club, posted his final vlog on September 6, 2024, where he encouraged men grappling with their mental health to seek help, reports Yorkshire Live . His channel, the Shoreham View, had over 8,000 subscribers and more than 1.5 million views. According to his father, Jonny "had been a Blades fan from birth". He said: "His life appeared to be wonderful," adding that Jonny had recently landed his dream job in the media team for a gym in Barnsley and was deeply in love with his girlfriend. Jonny Gascoigne (Image: Shoreham View/YouTube)
The football community was shaken in the days following Jonny's death, with fans from across the nation expressing their sorrow. Kevin says the family has since been astounded by the support from well-wishers, disclosing they've received over 1,000 messages of sympathy. Further support came through a GoFundMe campaign , launched by Jonny’s friend Nick Wylie. The fundraiser quickly exceeded its £5,000 goal to assist with funeral costs, amassing over £8,256. Kevin said: "We're so grateful for all of the support and the love that has been shown towards us. We're also eternally grateful for the money that has been raised because Jonny had no life insurance, and most importantly of all, we also now have to look after his two children." The £500 donation that pushed the fundraiser beyond its target was provided by Sheffield United owner Prince Abdullah. Kevin shared how the club has been a "huge support" following Jonny's passing, adding: "The support that we've had from football fans all over the country has been amazing, but Sheffield United have been absolutely magnificent. The club couldn't have done more for us in the past few weeks." Sheffield United fans paid their respects to Jonny during the recent home game against Swansea City at Bramall Lane on October 2. A poignant minute's applause resonated around the stadium in the 50th minute, as Jonny's image was displayed on the big screen. Kevin recalled: "The applause that night went all the way around the ground - even the Swansea fans at the other end, everyone joined in. "The next day his son Bill was quite overwhelmed by it all. He couldn't go into school the next day because he'd expected it to just be our little corner that was applauding. He was absolutely amazed that everyone in the ground was up on their feet and applauding for his dad." In a touching gesture, Sheffield United invited Billy, who shares his father's passion for football and the Blades, to be a mascot at the match against Luton Town on Saturday, October 5. Kevin added: "It gave him a day away from everything and a chance to laugh and enjoy himself. He's football crazy just like his dad." Kevin posted a video of Billy serving as a mascot on social media, captioning it: "Billy's big moment as he walks on with Michael Cooper - fist pumps the badge and waves to the kop to say thanks for the support we've all received. Thanks to Jon Helliwell, Sam Stones and Courtney for all you did to ease the pain of losing his dad." The family is now collaborating closely with Andy's Man Club, a charity focused on preventing male suicide, which will benefit from the donation boxes at Jonny's funeral next week. The club provides free peer support groups across the country every Monday night. When asked what advice he would give to anyone struggling with their mental health or experiencing similar issues to Jonny, Kevin said: "I would encourage them to talk about it. It's a man thing - maybe you don't want to show emotion, or want people to know that you have problems. But if you talk about them, then they become less of a problem. "Jonny's final line in his very last video was 'the world is a better place with you in it, I promise you' - and that's why it's so ironic that he said that, and then he left us. "We want to raise as much awareness of mental health as possible and if it saves one family from having to go through what we're going through then it will be worth it, because it's been the worst three weeks of our lives.~"
Jonny's funeral is set to take place on Saturday, October 19. The procession will commence from the family home, passing by the Sheffield United stadium on Bramall Lane, before a service at Hutcliffe Wood Crematorium at 10.30am. Blades fans have been invited by the family to bid farewell to Jonny and show their support. Attendees are encouraged to don red and white, in tribute to Jonny's favourite football team. For more information about the GoFundMe page established to raise funds for Jonny's funeral and to make a donation, click here. Story Saved
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